You CAN have the life you want, and you deserve it!

Hello! I’m Mylena “Blush” Sutton, and Pink Boxes Club (PBC) is my baby. 

I started PBC when I became able to give language to a problem that I saw in many of the women I met through my consulting practice. These women were accomplished, professional, busy, excellent at all the things, but something was missing. 

Then, something happened to me when I turned 40: I realized that I may have already used up half of my time on this planet, and that I wasn’t living the life I wanted to live. Then it hit me!  Like my clients, I was living without a sense of urgency. 

How could it be that I was living, but not living? I decided to explore what it meant to die, if I hadn’t lived. 

In this process, it hit me that death is not about a broken body, but the loss of opportunity. Death is no longer being able to work on it, whatever it is. Everything stops right then and there. Death is perhaps the one experience wherein we are truly in the present moment. I cried over my life for three days.

If the music stopped today, I wouldn’t be proud of how my song ended. 

I went on a self-discovery journey, questioned who I was and whether I had any goodness, and made some tough personal decisions.

I never spoke to my father again, even when he was dying. I gave up the constant fighting with my mother, but set boundaries to achieve a tethered and sustainable relationship. I committed to working on my health because I was too young to be breathing so hard when I took the stairs. Finally, I decided to stop quitting my business. Even if it didn’t turn out the way that I wanted, I needed the personal satisfaction of being all in.

I knew nothing in my life would change and that I’d spend the next 40 years doing the same uninspiring things, unless I made a plan. So, I made one and set out to design the life that I wanted to live.

I hope you'll invite me to go with you on your journey to personal growth, self-love, and self-discovery.