The Personal
Are you willing to lose yourself just because someone is lost to themselves?
Are you willing to lose yourself just because someone is lost to themselves? If you are in a relationship with someone where you are subjected to manipulation and abuse, whether…
Read MoreWhat are you focused on?
I was thinking about people who I admire and had an introspective moment about the power of vision and focus. One of the things that many of the people I…
Read MoreChange is not possible without conviction
One of the hardest things in the world to do is to identify what truly matters to you and subsequently go about redesigning your life so that everything you do…
Read MoreMy Struggle Isn’t Your Struggle…
My struggle isn’t your struggle – this is why some things look easier for me. I have a friend who I sometimes call my “almost auntie” because she’s only…
Read MoreHave You Judged Yourself As A Failure Prematurely?
Have you judged yourself as a failure prematurely? Sometimes, we set goals and we go after them gusto and things don’t work out the we’d hoped and planned. When this…
Read MoreWhy Obituary Writing?
Introspective activities are my favorite form of emotional selfcare (hiking is my favorite form of physical self care whereas taking off at least one full day on the weekends (including…
Read MoreAre You Truly Pro-Choice?!
The vast majority of the women I know can clearly articulate their rationale for their pro-choice abortion stance. These women can easily and clearly articulate how difficult the…
Read MoreWhat do you really want to do?
What do you really want to do? I don’t feel particularly passionate about anything. I don’t have time. I’m going to do it next year. All of these statements…
Read MoreThe Five Gifts of Reflection
I hope you’re reading this blog post at a time where you have the mental capacity to think about how 2022 and beyond are going to go for you. No,…
Read MoreAre You Hungry?
Hunger by Roxane Gay I listened to this book on “self-care day”. My self-care day consists of things I need to do to take of me like exercise, no appointments so…
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